FRESH START 2.0

I somehow attract gabby people.  I don’t know if I have a sign on my forehead that says “hey, please come tell me everything I never wanted to know”. Just kidding of course.  I am a great listener and actually gain a bunch of knowledge listening to people from all walks of life.

But there is a point I have discovered I must draw the line. My latest relationship loves to talk especially when we are having sex.  At first I dismissed it to nerves, first time excessive admiration, but that is not the case. And worst yet is he whispers in a deeper voice so when my head is sunk into the pillows and I am feeling myself raise into ecstacy I start hearing words in my ear that I don’t quite understand because I was temporarily lost the moment if you know what I mean. Then I sort of snap out of it and think “huh” what did he just say?  Then the “moment” is lost.  Gone.  I just don’t know what to do.  I suppose this is a Dear Abby sort of problem but I thought I would start here.